Well It’s Official!

I am now a performer in the adult industry’s “pretty girl” porn arena.

Many of you know, that I got my foot in the door at Kink.com about a year ago.  Boy oh boy what a year this has been!  I had no idea that the event/shoot I went to, as a guest, in August of last year would lead me to this…

Here is my sexual journey to date in a nutshell:

I have gone from a little girl who first peeked at the vast collection of Playboy magazines in my daddy’s bedside drawer at about 8 years old. Had (very uninspiring) sex for the first time with my junior high school boyfriend during spring break of 8th grade. Snuck softcore (VERY softcore!) porn out of my step-mom’s bedside table when I was babysitting my much younger half siblings at 14 (Hey, they were napping!!) – while also experimenting with and enjoying her vibrator….  TO – a woman who works in the adult film industry as a performer – shooting scenes even more hardcore than my craziest fantasies could ever take me in my mind.

Are you wondering how this sort of thing happens?  I really don’t have an answer to that.  I have always been a very sexual person, but I’ve not always been very comfortable with that fact.  I used to think I was a freak, or that I was sick or abnormal, or that I was a whore…. It took a long time of hiding and keeping my desires and fantasies to myself, being too afraid to share who I was and what I wanted, let alone ask for ANYTHING in bed; before I met my match in the sack.  It was within this relationship, I was able (and encouraged) to fully blossom sexually.  He is still my biggest source of encouragement and support today, even ass deep in a sea of other cocks and pussies.  Most of you probably see him as “the lucky guy”, but on the contrary – it is ME that is the lucky one.

One question I get asked all the time: “how do I get my girlfriend/wife to like what you like?” or “How do I get my wife/girlfriend to do what you do” – which I assume means, “How do I turn my female partner into a freak in the sheets”.  From my experience the answer is two-fold…..

First – she has to have those desires, fantasies and needs inside herself.  You can’t create that.  You can’t force that or manufacture that in another person.  You CAN however, offer her (by creating or orchestrating) opportunities to be turned on by those activities you desire to participate in with her.  You know the old adage  “you can lead a horse to water, but you cant make him take it in the ass”?  Sushi is a good example.  I have turned many people into raw fish lovers, merely by asking them to join me to eat.  I almost always have to reassure the target that “No, it’s not ALL raw, they have tempura!”, but by the time we finish dinner the deed is done – “Oh yes, there is SO much more than a California roll dear, and why yes – we CAN order more”.  Get my drift?

Second – Unconditional love and acceptance.  Assuming they exist within her, she likely won’t share her deepest, naughtiest, most filthy fantasies with you unless she is 100% certain you will not judge, tease or think she is “bad”.  She needs to know (and fully believe) that you will still completely, unequivocally, and without a shred of doubt – still love and accept her.  This sounds like a given, in a long term relationship or marriage, but it’s not.  Most people say they unconditionally love and accept their partner, but sadly that is not usually pure or completely true.

So to answer that original question –   “how do I get my girlfriend/wife to like what you like or do what you do?” – there is no clear cut way.  Just love her, accept her, make her feel like a woman – ALL the time, not just when you want to get some – and then gently ASK her.  You might be surprised with her answer!  …then again,  you may get slapped in the face, so you didn’t hear it from me. 😉

So there it is…  from naughty little girl, to naughty woman.  And now I am lucky enough to share the rest of my journey from here on with all of you.  I have no idea where this road will lead, but as long as I keep my mind, heart and pussy open, I am sure this is going to be in incredibly wild ride!

Won’t you join me?

 

Until next time!

Simone

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